Good manners in work place and life matters a lot, it actually depicts the success and failure as a human. In your work, and other phase of your endeavor (Life).
Manners can be described as a person social conducts, which can be regarded as either polite/acceptable or not. It could be described as a socially acceptable behavior.
Good manners make a person outstanding. A well-mannered person(particularly because it is not a common phenomenon) will always be remembered, in the same way that people will always remember an ill-mannered person.
Manners are an integral part of a good person, citizenship and staff. Considerations for others and not only for one’s own wants and needs is necessary if a person is to be a valuable member of an organization.
Ill-manner is often the basis for a bad performance evaluation. Yes, you performed the job duties, but you were hard to manage. You took too much psychic energy. You were negative about new ideas; you may have been right, but managed to make others feel stupid or angry along the way. You complain a lot, but you spread the sabotaging word. You claim to hate politics, but you practice a malevolent brand of it. These are the kinds of behaviors that is difficult to spell out, but they’re there and they spring from your bad manners.
A good manner, on the other hand, conveys: I’m here in mind and heart. I’m ready. I’m available. I’m willing to go the extra mile. I can change and adapt. I can learn. I’m on the team. I’m part of something important that must get done.
Good manners shows respect, regard and consideration for the other person, an acknowledgement that achievement generally requires more than one person, a willingness to share the glory, to treat others as human beings who might have the same greatness you do. This kind of “attitudes and manners” goes deeper than any etiquette book, and it nicely crosses cultures.
If your attitude says, “Yes!” and your manners say “Yes, ma’am!” you can go just about as far as you want in an organization. Hold onto a snarly rudeness, however, and you’ll never be able to afford Tony’s, but will be dining at Happy Jack’s at a table for one.
When people of varying values, cultures and economic brackets must work and live side by side, etiquette, positive attitudes and manners becomes a modern requisite. Pleasant behavior is just plain and more appealing, behaving in thoughtful ways helps both morally and aesthetically to make an organization, and the world a better place.
THE TEN COMMANDMENTS OF GOOD MANNERS.
- Thou shalt be Thyself.
- Thou shalt say Thank You.
- Thou shalt give Compliments.
- Tho shalt not be Boastful, Arrogant or Loud.
- Thou shalt Listen before Speaking.
- Thou shalt speak with Kindness and Caution.
- Thou shalt not Criticize or Complain.
- Thou shalt be Punctiual.
- Thou shalt Not Embarrass Others.
- Thou shalt act and look your Best.
Keep your self up and your manners showing.
ByPlus Corner…….
